I am writing this as a client of sex workers and escorts, the thought processes and practicalities I go through in selecting someone for some intimate time together. Let’s face it, you are meeting a total stranger and exposing yourself to her in a very intimate way. On the negative side you are potentially making yourself vulnerable to extortion, harm, disease, or just an unsatisfying date. On the positive side, you are opening yourself to new experiences, a fun time with an enchanting female who will put you at ease and provide you with a mind-blowing experience. I personally have never had a dangerous date, maybe a few unsatisfying dates. The vast majority have been excellent, while a few longer dates have been out of this world.

Starting the process of choosing

Before you even start to choose an escort, you need to figure out your requirements and why you want to book an escort. It could be for a quick shag, or some longer erotic time together, some specialist sexual fantasies. For longer dates, maybe dinner, someone to accompany you to the restaurant or gig. It could be someone you want to talk with and have cuddles when you are on a lonely business trip to the city. There are even longer-term liaisons, someone to go on holiday with, or maybe a trip away for the weekend.  Nothing beats having a friend with you when visiting the sights of a foreign city and sharing experiences together.

So, first, work out your requirements, this is the length of the liaison, what you want out of the liaison, where the meeting is to take place and importantly the type of partner you are looking for.  If you don’t have your requirements worked out, it you be like putting all your money into bitcoin jackpot slots at Betpanda UK.  Work this all out, and jot it down in a note to yourself, and use this information to do your initial selection of escorts.

Where do I look for Escorts

Now you have your list of requirements, start the search.  You can of course use Google in your search, this will inevitably pull up a list of escort agencies and escort directories. Depending on your requirements, this may be enough for you to go on, you can search the type of woman you require in these listings.

Agencies

Most agencies will be able to provide you with someone for the shorter appointments and overnight calls. Anything longer would require more specialized agencies.  You also have the problem with the agency, in that you are talking with a third party, and not directly to the escort. All requirements would be answered by a third party, which would not be acceptable for a longer appointment.

Agencies are good for the quick appointment, providing you with someone at short notices.

Escort Directories

Escort directories provide you with a list of escorts, which often allow you to choose an escort by some physical attributes. This is useful for an initial selection. Now comes the time to read any biographical information and to start creating a shortlist. Some escorts advertising in a directory will also link to a website run by the escort. Visit that site as well, it will likely have more information.

Contacting The Escorts

Create yourself a shortlist of the escorts you are interested in and go about contacting them.  Contact them in the way they ask you, and provide them with the information they require, and provide them with your requirements. Under no circumstances text, message or email them with a three-word request such as, ‘Are you Free’. These will either be ignored, or replied with a terse response.

Hopefully this initial contact will provide you with a shorter list of escorts, at this stage it is worth getting to talk to them, to discuss the requirements of the date, times and logistics.

Review Sites

Escort review sites do exist, and sometimes it is worth the effort to check for reviews. They do need to be looked at carefully, because some can be fake reviews, some clients may hold a grudge against an escort. A client may have booked a totally unsuitable escort, and left a bad review, while that escort for your needs would have been ideal. Read them with care and make the decision wisely.

Booking

Now you have a couple of contenders to book, make the booking. Some escorts do require a payment up front.  These escorts are likely providing higher class activities and providing longer dates.  They are blocking their time for you, and if you are a no show, then they lose their earnings for the day.  They probably have been bitten by this in the past, there are some nasty people out there you love to make bookings and never turn up.

So, when you book do as they say, but do be careful and be certain that the escort is real. I have come across some cases where the escort is not even in the country where they purport to be located.

Apologize to the other escorts you had on your short list.  You never know when you might want to use their services.  Keep them on your list, it will save you time searching for others.

The Day has arrived

The time has come. Check with them that all is fine.  Let them know if you are going to be late, and never turn up early. Have a great time.